Well I've already had loads of parties during the time I've been alive But in the case of death I'd love for everyone to wear any colours they'd like and choose the songs they'd like to dedicate to me. Last thing I want is for everyone to be and look upset, I'd rather they looked at my life with inspiration to help guide themselves and to smile and remember all the good memories I shared with each person rather than have everyone dwell about my final stages in life.
I dont make the choice.. i know the answer. Ill have a party after death. Anyone can have a party when theyre alive... but who wouldnt want to have one when youre dead? :D (cant die of alcohol and drugs if youre already dead, right? xP)